Sashaying thru Seperation III

[Heartbroken]

MC,

I for one would only do family things and not all these date nights if I did not want to send the wrong message. But who knows what her logic is and we cannot really guess.

Sounds like Mother's Day went great. Again watch your expectations - they get me still. Even now in piecing my 'perceived expectations' (from H pt. of view) are getting me in trouble. My H is worried about his lack of ability to reconcile (w/me)without so much effort on his part - he thinks he's so messed up he's not sure what to do. He finally made an appt with a counselor (diff from mine) for next week. This scares me but I know it's necessary. This roller coaster ride still continues for me as well...

Hang in there!!