I don't know your situation, but why is she waiting? It sounds like she's not getting something she needs and she's not sharing with you what it is???
I can only speak for my W but she felt completely unsafe financially because of my erratic pay and that led to her feeling unsafe in other areas - emotionally, even physically.
I look at it this way, I have until Aug 2 to get my [censored] together financially. You have til July whenever. Do whatever you can to ease her stress at home and get one of those jobs so she'll fell more secure. When that happens, perhaps some doors will open up to discuss repairing the R. GOOD LUCK!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
