I think he does it for me. I checked out the book, "5 Languages of Love" at the library as you suggested. I haven't read it yet, except for the cover and I can already tell that one of the ways my XH showed his love for me was doing acts of service. He always washed my car, changed the oil, did any repairs and maintenance I needed, etc. (and he still wants to do that now) and took care of snow removal and mowing the lawn. So, I want to believe he does it for me. We have a 15 year old son who is very capable of mowing the lawn, but my XH has chosen to do it. So, for now, I guess I'll let him.
Thanks for your perspective--I really appreciate it. Have a great day!
