Hey FT, You sound good. This is confusing but you are handling it well. Just_Me raises a different slant on things but that is why this place is so good.
I remember last summer going to the house to mow. She had someone mow around the house but the back four acres needed a tractor so I would go do it. For her. I had hopes, that is why I did it.
This year the tractor remains silent - I have better things to do.
Is you H behaving the same way? Mows as an act of service for you or as Just_Me says as a way to hedge his bets? That is why I don't like calling things "baby steps". You will do well to "concentrate on me, detach and GAL" as you said.
