The four weeks thing was his idea and I haven't agreed to anything. If I was honest, I would say that sometimes I do want to try and reconcile, but at other times I don't. So, my plan is now to concentrate on me, detach and GAL. I know eventually we will have a discussion about us, but I don't think now is the right time.
As for mowing the lawn, I was planning on doing it myself but he was already doing it when I came home unexpectedly from work. I didn't ask him to do it. He doesn't have access to the house or garage, but the mower was left outside from the last time I did it.
Thanks for your reply and I appreciate your honesty.