It's good to see that you are going to do this the way you want to do this and not let him dictate what happens.

It could possible be that he is going through MLC. It could have a lot to do with his life experiences. No matter what it is, it's something he has to go through and come to terms with on his own. Could be my bad, but did you post your ages?

Only you know how much you are willing to put up with. Yes, 5 or 6 years is a very long time. That's not to say he will go through it that long if it truly is MLC.

As long as you're living your life for yourself, GAL and detaching.......you'll be just fine. You have a good head on your shoulders and you already seem to be well along in the healing process. You go girl!!

I am heading off to my home state today. I have court tomorrow to finalize my D. I will try to check in on you later today or tomorrow.

Keep smiling and have a great day!!

~SE

Last edited by StrongEnough; 05/14/07 12:22 PM.
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007