Interesting family “Mothers day Luncheon” Went to my SL house for lunch. Cousins, sister and ML were there. My W and I did sit together out back with everybody (Nice California weather just rubbing it in to all ya back east people). Anyway we sat next to each other. Some how the conversation turned to marriages. (I was not doing any of the talking but someone brought up how they hope our niece (who was divorced once already). Realized how lucky she is to have her current husband. How much of a hard worker and good person he is. Then the cousin brought up how much his sister and her husband who from the outside look like a dysfunctional family are really so close. Married 17 years and the still hold hands.

It was like some how messages were being sent to my W. She did not comment just shook her head in agreement.

Like I said I did not partake in this conversation and no body in the family Knows that we are having problems. This just kind of came up. It’s either a sign or its like when you by a new car. Al of a sudden you start noticing all of those cars on the road. They were always there you just didn’t notice them before.


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know