I’m experiencing the same thing with My W. Before I started GAL she was always the same. Not really happy, not really angry just kind of there. Now she does have these mood swings. I’m lucky because it has not swung all of the way to anger but she is happier and more talkative than I have seen in a long time. Or she becomes distant. I DO NOT CHECK her phone records anymore. It just made me feel like S**t when I saw when and how long she was talking to the OM so I don’t know if it has anything to do with my actions or his. Something is going on though. I to have been going out. I’m not really the going out kind of guy. I mean I loved going out with my W. But it’s hard to go out and leave her at home. I would rather stay home with my son. But I have forced myself to do this. Anyway Im right there with ya I don’t know if the GAL is having an affect or not. I am planning to ask my W if she want’s to go out next week end to play some pool. No relation ship talk, No mushy stuff just a nice game of pool between friends. If she agrees Then I think the GAL is working because it’s like she wants to get in and become part of MY LIFE.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
