Why do these things happen

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I agree JRyan, I think all of us go off the deep end at least in the begining, the one good thing for me is I bought DB'ing and Divorce Remedy within 48 hours of her telling me. That is probably the best thing I did to stop so quickly. Now for her being very commuticative, not sure on that one, about our son and the bills she is, about us, I think I still need to go with her last comment on that and that was divorce, she has actually not said anything to say trying or maybe, but dinners, changing her mind on some of the bills without a peep from me is a good start. As for the changes, they all were for her in the very beginning, but switched damn quick to be for me once I entered rehab and that will not change.