Hi Farmtown,
In my opinion, I don't think it really matters if you can define your XH as MLC or not. If the MLC boards help you and you can relate more to people here than anywhere, that's all that matters. No matter where we are with our sitches, we all need support and if this is where you find it, then this is where you belong.

I hope you find what you need here. There are a lot of great people here with good advice and a lot of good listeners!
Unbroken