I watched the "Prince of Tides" ... The affair helps him to reconnect with lost parts of himself, and to experience love and being loved. He takes this experience, and realizes that he needs to take his love back home to his W and daughters.
CL,do you think this movie shows the benefit of waiting out our spouses disconnect??? Just wondering.
CL, Wow! All I can say is what an incredible man you are. Your wife needs to open her eyes, and I believe she is starting to do just that. You are doing such a good job. You are so calm and cool. Great job with the PMA and GAL.
You are such a wealth of info and advice. I don't know what we DB's would do without you. Thanks for being such a good friend to all on here!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Matilda, Jak, and Yoyo, My W and I had dinner out on Thursday evening, as my writer's group was cancelled. She said that I seemed present, and thanked me for it.
There is another dance party being hosted at a home tonight, so I took last night off. My W and I practiced for about an hour. She's very good at pointing out areas I need to work on, and helping me to make adjustments. I could see her teaching this and being paid for it at some point. I noticed that I kept a personal distance, on some of the slower songs.
She was at the doctor's this week, as she wasn't feeling well, and was worried about her coughing. They took a chest Xray, and gave her some antibiotics. She said "it's time" (to quit smoking). I hope so.
I spent the day at my nephew's soccer game, and catching-up with my brother. I told him about my writer's group, and he told me about his career plans.
I accepted an invitation to join my W and mother-in-law tomorrow for Mother's Day. I get along well with my MIL.
My W has slept elsewhere 4X this month. We continue to sleep in separate bedrooms.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
CL, hope Mother's Day with W and MIL was fun. How was the dance party? Hope you "wowed" all the ladies....in front of your W!
H was borrowing dvd's from D16 and it gave me an idea. Do you think there would be any value to getting him Prince of Tides to watch? OR would it not mean anything if he's in MLC mode? I know, I know: GAL!!!
CL, hope Mother's Day with W and MIL was fun. How was the dance party? Hope you "wowed" all the ladies....in front of your W!
H was borrowing dvd's from D16 and it gave me an idea. Do you think there would be any value to getting him Prince of Tides to watch? OR would it not mean anything if he's in MLC mode? I know, I know: GAL!!!
