Wife hits me.....need help....

[mcojh]

OK Sol, sorry I missed your call. I was out with the family at the Zoo and had a bad signal.

1-You did great. You showed great restraint and did what needed to be done.

2-I missed the suicide threat thing, but if she does threaten suicide, call the police and report it. They will come out and likely have her brought in for an evaluation. If not, at least it will teach her to not make threats to scare you.

3-If she hits you again, call the police. Report it and if the Officers make the decision to arrest her, so be it. In most cases it is the officers that make the decision to arrest, it is not based on the victims statement.

4-Look in your phone book for a domestic abuse hotline. They are there to aid victims in getting out of a bad situation. You are not their normal victim, but they are there to help you.

5-DO NOT allow yourr self to be sucked into another argument. I don't mean to sound sexist ladies, but our society tends to take a harder stance against males involved in domestic situations. The male is likely to be either removed from the residence or arrested if it is a mutual combatants situation.

Lastly Sol, know that we are here for you, speaking for myself, you, your daughter and SS are in my prayers, as is your wife.

May God Bless you and help guide you to find your way out of this.