This is the 2nd time in 7 years that my husband of 25 years has violated our marraige and with the same fatal attraction woman I just don't understand why when one wants to stray they bring all that onto thier spouse. I can tell u in time it does get better the feelings u feel are real and valid it took me along time to let my husband back into that place where I felt I could trust him and then I just find out he went back to sleeping with her 3 months ago, yes he called it off because he told her he loved me and has always been in love with me and that she was just a quick piece like that was gonna make me feel better like I won the prize. My problem is I do love my husband and he outside of this is a kind and loving man when I take the bad away there is so much more good than bad I guess what I am trying to say is there is hope after the 1st time but I can say that about the 2nd time.
