Hi,
I had posted what is below previously to you and I'm still curious as to your response. Also, as someone who worked at a job that I hated for 30 yrs, I strongly encourage you to do what you love where you love it!!!!

You seem to be at such an indecisive place as to whether to stay or go. Are you happy with your life now?

He wants to be with you as long as you and D give up your home, family, friends, etc., and move somewhere that you've made it clear you don't want to be. And....yes, he's lonely. Statistics show that there are about 9 men to every 1 woman in Alaska. Hmmm.... What is he willing to do for you once you move there? And, why is he not willing to move where you are if he's so bent on making you happy?