Frank, thanks for the words above. I have never defined for myself what my limits are because my attitude is that I can weather any storm for the sake of my family. That, in and of itself, has to be one of the most Alpha things a person can do if you ask me. To me, divorce is not an option and I have always felt that way. I know it is not for me to totally control, but I am resolute in my desire to make this work. I see that theme from a great many on this forum.
So I got to thinking, you need to set up a PayPal account and start charging for some of your private advice and guidence. The business guy in me says you could make a killing! Sorry if you find that tacky or offensive, just having a bit of fun. Seriously though, your experience and the means by which you communicate it in a helpful and thoughtful manner for those of us beginning the journey makes me think you might find a new career path in this. Always look at the options, I guess.