Why do these things happen

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Thanks for the encouragement, part of me wishes that I had just promised, but I know I did the right thing in not in this situation. As for not snooping, holly cow is it hard not to do, but as I said before, no "benifit" by doing it and that is probably what keeps me from doing just that. I am not going to change what I am doing now, but even with her latest twists, even though she is not saying it, I do somewhat believe she is just sitting back and seeing who I become.