Your sitch is all too common, unfortunately. I think some spouses just have a hard time dealing with the realities of married life. Life in general is not easy, and I am sorry to learn about your sitch. Many of us are her for the primary reason of seeking help to save our M's. In the end, it is really about saving ourselves in case our M's work or they do not. Our WAS's are like loose canons, they are lost, uncommitted, and all we can really do is show them the way. That's the hard part, but they also have to meet us half way in order to rebuild any kind of happy R. Most times it's best to move on, as I am finding out in my own sitch.
Just remember you are here for YOU. Even if it ends in D, we all have a good future if we chose it to be.
Take care Gracey.......
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
