I have learned so much these past 18 mos. I still love my H and miss him dearly, but he is not the same person I fell in love with. He has some major growing up to do. He's having a delayed adolescence and complete identity crisis. Nothing I did or didn't do in our marriage would have stopped this from happening. He was a ticking time-bomb and no one, not even he, knew it.
Monica.
This is exactly my W. We had a fight today, on Mother's Day. I gave her flowers, she rejected them.
Now, I wonder if she will ever grow up and out of her adolescent behavior? I too had NO IDEA anything was wrong. She still denies any wrong doing about an A.......it's unbelievable.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
