You provided some very sound advice to me in my thread earlier and I certainly appreciate it. I'm curious about something (anyone feel free to chime in if you will), how long does one utilized DB, Alpha Male and other tactics with a reasonable expectation of progress?
As long as you can. Everyone has their limits. The thing is, as you build your ALphaness, your confidence, you'll slowly start to wonder what the hell is wrong with HER. To the point to where you see your time being wasted because you have such a positive future outlook for YOU.
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I see in some of your posts what I interpret at least as being a certain lingering resentment for you W having put you through all of this in the first place, which is something I fear God willing my sitch improves. I guess I shouldn't put the proverbial cart before the horse, but I can see what you mean.
Yes, and over time it becomes less and less. That's why the percentage of couples who survive this is so low - the 'aftermath' is a challenge to get through. But you can do it.[/quote]