Ok
I have an off the wall idea.
Tell me what you think

I try to become the OM. I E-mail my W something like this


How are you doing? Haven’t talked to ya in a while. I hear you are having some problems. Hey remember I am you best friend. If there is some problem between you and your husband and you think I can help let’s talk. Maybe I can help you. Being a guy I know guy’s can be confusing sometimes. They are always sending mixed messages, sometimes they smother ya other times they act like you don’t exist or take ya for granted. My wife is going through some hard times right now and having some problems and maybe you can help me understand also. Not being a woman Sometimes I don’t understand what she needs or is going through.
Anyway please write back I have some questions about my wife I would like your opinion on.

Have a great day
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Now remember. In my sitch for some reason my W is holding back her feelings. Do you think acting like the OM might help he talk to me?

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know