Although my h isn't perfect, I have such a love for him, and I really look at him genuinely, and I have no thoughts about what happened last year. I thank God for the Lord giving me such a forgiving heart.
ST - I think about this often - a foregiving heart. And wonder if I will be able to lovingly accept W. I may be an exception, but I have not really felt so overwhelmingly angry at W in spite of her A. Maybe because I still don't feel foregiven for my part in the breakdown of the marriage. Maybe because I've grown accustomed to just keeping it bottled up so as to not upset the progress. And maybe, I already have the forgiving heart.
You posted on my thread, after recently spending alot of time with my W, to not be surprised if she needs some time away. Can you write a bit about if/what happened with you? Did H almost get home and then drift away again? Did you do anything different?
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
