This detaching is just not easy for me!!!! Now I'm angry about H's lack of consideration for F16. All week she has been talking about doing something with her dad and grandmother for Mother's Day. I still hadn't heard plans, but knew BIL and SIL were taking GM to church and then to breakfast. I ended up calling H this morning not knowing if they were going to join the others for breakfast or do something later in the day. (D16 is not an early riser normally so wanted her to be ready. However, if they weren't going to breakfast I was going to let her sleep since she wasn't feeling good last night).
H sounded like I was crazy. What plans??? I explained that D16 thought they had made plans earlier in the week and was counting on seeing her GM.I said I could easily take her over there. H ended up saying he would be over later. GGGGRRR.
I am mad at myself for calling him when I vowed I wouldn't! I was trying to smooth things between H and D16 when I should have just let them figure it out themselves. I should have asked H to call before he comes because now I'll be on edge until he comes. I thought about leaving the house, but I'm actually getting some decluttering done and hate to stop progress.
D16 is taking me to a movie later. We'll have a happy Mother's Day no matter what!!!!!
