I will have to agree with Jeff. From what you have said here, it seems almost like he made the deicision to move back in. If one of you isn't ready to piece....then that could be a bad move. (you've read my story.....) I understand your confusion on the "wanting to move back in" but not wanting to be "physical" with you. That kind of confuses me too.
The other thing to keep in mind is your son. How will it affect him?
I guess the biggest thing is to decide what you want and how you want to go about it. If you don't feel like it's a good idea that he moves back in with you right away...then by all means discuss it with him. Give him some alternatives (dating).
Hope you have a great day and thanks for stopping by my thread!
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007