Mothers day today. I had planned to make my W a mothers day dinner (and she was to invite her best friend, something she agreed with). We are separated however it does not change the way I am, and she has told me that she really does want to be friends, hence my goodwill.
Went to see my sister, had a round of golf and then got a call from W giving me a list of things to buy from the supermarket. Ok thats fine, get it on the way home.
I get home at 7 pm to start dinner, W is not here, DD is not here, no phone calls cancelling dinner, nothing.
Pretty inconsiderate seeing it was agreed on.
If they say that they "still care for you but don't love you", why do they treat you like sh*t when you are GALing, detached and giving them space.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
