You provided some very sound advice to me in my thread earlier and I certainly appreciate it. I'm curious about something (anyone feel free to chime in if you will), how long does one utilized DB, Alpha Male and other tactics with a reasonable expectation of progress? I think I saw somewhere that you invested six months without seeing substantial results, and I'm sure everybody has a different story of their own. I would suppose it all depends on the WAW/H and how committed you are to serious DBing.
I see in some of your posts what I interpret at least as being a certain lingering resentment for you W having put you through all of this in the first place, which is something I fear God willing my sitch improves. I guess I shouldn't put the proverbial cart before the horse, but I can see what you mean.
Anyway, thank you for laying your story out there for all of us to learn from. You are a true inspiration and even though my own situation is bleak right now, I at least know that others have been where I am and have come out with their marriages and families intact.
DNQ
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
