To all in here;

I have to say I'm very confused as to some of the aspects of the whole Alpha Male thing. I don't want to pee in anyone's Cheeerios here, but how does an AM stand back while he knows someone else in moving in on their territory? I know, you get involved and it pushes her to him. I'm dealing with this now myself.

But, what if the opposite were to occur? Some women must look at their not-so-Alpha Male as being very weak if they stand by and do nothing. What man LETS that happen?

I admire MC's restraint when the sitch went from EA to PA. One was just averted in my own life yesterday. I didn't do anything because I did not believe it was going to go physical. If I knew it was going on, I don't think I could sit back, do the DB stuff with a calm and cool demeanor knowing that just hours before or hours later W was/is in some OG's bed.

Again, does the passive approach sometimes backfire?

DNQ