I just finished slogging through this rollercoaster thread.
Nice thread title, Choco. Suckered me right in.
So many topics for comment I can't even think where to begin.
I have not posted in over two months and back then I felt your R was already at critical mass. NOPkins felt as well.
Seeing as how your thread is currently way off topic I will steer it back to you, Chocolate Eyes.
I am simply amazed the sharp folks on SSM let this one go without comment:
Choco said: "btw, my keylogger caught the following from my wife about two weeks ago:
"OLDER WOMAN-YOUNGER-MAN RELATIONSHIPS"
The wise sage once said, what you focus upon expands.
Turns out my warnings from 2 months ago are beginning to come to fruition after all. NOPkins' too.
The cancer is spreading...
You want singular alpha ideas as to how to react to your W's tardiness. Words. IMO you are way beyond words. There is no alpha response. The thread question breaks down at square one.
Why?
Because alphas don't live life reacting to bad F behavior. (Weak) Betas live life in constant reactive mode. Alphas are proactive. Alphas have objectives. Alphas are in firm control of their own destinies at all times, with or without an F in the picture.
What the hell is your objective? For the life of me I cannot figure this out from any of your posts.
A long time ago I promised I would not again address the alpha male mentality in this forum. Why? Because I realized my thread bashing myself for my beta male behavior made a beta male personality look like a bad thing. IMO it isn't.
I had a recent revelation about how I ascribed too much importance in the past on the alpha trait in terms of Rs. Yes, it is important. Definitely. To keep your F and R in line. And, yes, it comes in handy in business on occasion as well. But it's only half of the grater whole. the other half is what I've found to be the prince vs. the king mind set. And who do I have to thank for this revelation?
Donald Trump. But I don't have time to explain on your thread as it is off topic.
Again, too many things swirling around in my head. Perhaps I can post in chunks. Shrug. All I know for sure is you are in dire need of seeing the forest for the trees, my honorable friend. -Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ