Whore/Madonna

[Heywyre]

Yup - only one question (but that didn't surprise me in the least. We have done compatibility tests in the past and they always say we were made for each other - lol)

The topic of difference? - sex of course. The question basically referred to the last several weeks of the relationship and whether or not emotions, anger, etc reflected on our sex life and/or were we satisfied with the level of intimacy in the relationship. H answered total contentment with the sex/intimacy level and I was completely at the other end of the scale. Other than that one question we were dead on in our answers (which involved our satisfaction level (i.e. satisfied, very satisfied, not satisfied at all etc.) with the level of household chores, recreational activities together, spending time with friends, style of dressing, the way we deal and/or the differences with finances, religion, spending habits, our clothing styles - that type of thing.

Now interestingly enough, just the day before we went to see the C, we were talking about a dream I had - and I was saying H had been extremely romantic (in the dream that is) and took me to this nice little cabin and it was all done up with flowers and candles (nothing really he couldn't pull off himself in reality) and I said "it was just soooooo romantic, it was nice" and H said "what do you mean, I'm romantic, I like to cuddle don't I?"

See what I am dealing with? He things "cuddling" is being romantic. I don't say it isn't a nice expression of caring and emotion but I would hardly put it in the "romantic" category.

However, on the plus side, he did say (while in C yesterday) that he "feels the best (he) ever has with regard to our relationship and that (he's) content" - so that's definitely a plus. When we came out of the C's office he repeated that he was "very content" and happy we had moved here and that he knew I didn't feel like that right now but hoped I would feel the same way soon

We went out to see a friend that had just had an operation and when we got home around 10, I was downstairs and heard him talking on the phone (which I thought was strange because he NEVER calls anyone after about 9) but I didn't snoop and say "who the hell are you calling at this time of night" and then today he told me he had made reservations for us to go out tonight at our favourite restaurant. We later went to visit his friend again and his friend said "what you doing later". Normally H would have said "we are going to XXX, wanna come along" but he didn't invite him and later said to me "I was going to invite (friend) but ..." and he hesitated and I said, it would be nice to be by ourselves tonight and he laughed and said "that's what I thought you would like so I didn't say anything". I thanked him

Maybe he is getting the hang of this eh? - either that or he's buttering me up for the cell bill coming next week (but that's being negative and we won't go there right now)