You don't have to guess what is the right thing to say to your W, you can ask her what she would like you to say.
Do you really think asking my W what she would want me to say or do is attractive, assertive behavior? Maybe I'm missing the whole point here, but that seems to fly in the face of everything else I've heard about it, and seems to be contradictory to how you have been handling your own M.
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If you can get her there, and talk about these kinds of things, you might find out she would love for you to be super macho ... or not.
I don't want to be super-macho. That's not who I am nor who I ever could be even if I wanted to. I just want to stop being un-attractive to my W and start being attractive, or at least tip the balance more toward the attractive side. I know my W isn't into the super-macho men. She isn't into WCW or UFC guys. But she does love Sean Connery and Patrick Stewart. She also, like many other women I have talked to loves the "House" main character, who is quite a jerk most of the time. Why is that?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
