Cobra, why do you continue to make wild guess at my motivations, and now, include my wife?

It just isn't that simple.

I will throw you another piece of the puzzle. You can't begin to guess my FOO issues, simply because they existed for only a few - numbered less than 10,000. I'm not special, but I am nothing at all like you or like you imagine. MrsNOP's issues with me deal with a set of circumstances completely alien to you.

I don't care what you say or do here, it is an open forum after all. I have no desire whatsoever to debate you. Your pronouncements of having figured us out are misplaced however, and rooted only in your imagination.

Quote:"Now tell me whether that sounds like a healthy marriage or just another form of control?"

Have a look at your own relationship before you condemn mine. Mine is not in trouble. I don't treat my wife without respect. I am not stuck in my family of origin issues. You might also want to have a look at why my presence here is such an irritant to you.

I just don't bother to read most of your posts. I suggest that the same is a good tactic for you.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.