I feel the same way. H is now being friendly, and I think it's because he's going to marry his gf. Is he? Who knows. But the nicer he is, the more suspicious I am!
LOL. I know exactly what you mean here...we have just got to get over this. Practice assuming the best, it is probably better for our blood pressure anyway.
Thanks for posting, it is also good in a weird way to realize how much everyone is sharing the same experience.