I feel the same way. H is now being friendly, and I think it's because he's going to marry his gf. Is he? Who knows. But the nicer he is, the more suspicious I am!
I think the hardest part of their "niceness," when you are so close to D that there is really no hope of reconciliation, is that it can remind you of what they were like, or what they CAN be like. Gosh, that is so hard, when you just want to think he's a jerk to get through it.
Love, N
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