Well my H left me after we were at my niece's wedding...so hard to forget the date as we have a million glasses with the date engraved on it!!!
He came back on a not so memorable date...because it was more in and out then truly back for a time (no OW or I wouldn't have allowed it, she had been gone a year)...
Now our divorce/reconciliation hearing is set for that same fateful date in Sept...I even mentioned that when the judge set the date as the first one she set was my son's b/d...so she changed it...and I laughed and said "well that was the date he left so maybe that would be a good date to decide about ending the D!"...she thought it was funny because every rescheduled date she was doing that day was falling on someone's b/d in the group...but she hit two dates that were memorable for me...funny thing is the WAS rarely even remembers the dates...or maybe it is just the WAH...but then men are notorious for date issues anyway aren't they???
Anyway...he is back in IC for his issues...I have a great full-time summer job with our city day camp program...I get to go on field trips everyday for 9 weeks, get my lunch, entrance to amusement parks, AND GET PAID FOR IT!!!!
Hopefully soon H will get a job that he feels comfortable with and will stay at...it is tough being the leader of the family when for so long I was the support part of the team...I am ready to hand over the reigns and have him lead again...
