I remember vaguely packing H's things last year. I can remember being relieved I was not packing myself.
Maybe he's trying to be "helpful", he sees what you are going through and he's trying to find a way to "help", to be kind?
I told Lissett that all this "help" that TMWDM was giving regarding my closing, etc., made me feel like he couldn't get it done fast enough, couldn't get rid of me fast enough.
She suggested instead that he was trying to do whatever he could to no longer be viewed as an a$$hole by me.