My Marriage still feels hopeless

[~Sol]

After reading your last post, I can sense that you have more of a chance than you realize. By this, I mean that there is still room for REAL POSITIVE CHANGE.....

Don't dwell or focus on the R, and you are right in saying the M is dead. It's time to work at building a NEW M, and that begins with REAL CHANGE.

Did I mention that real change is needed??? Do that, and the dynamics of the R will also change.



Also, the talks your W is having is a very good thing. But just take them with a grain of salt too, and don't read into anything. If you can come out a better person, you are ahead of the game.

Take care.