Hey -- IMHO, if you can move to Alaska, you can always move back, right?
It's a choice that all of us here on the forum make every day to stand for our M's and do the DB'ing thing. It amazes me how prevelent all of this is -- which is obvious by how many of us are here, right?
Anyway, I personally think you are doing the right thing. What if you DIDN'T go? You would always wonder WHAT IF. And that would suck. I think it is so worth it to go and see . . .
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10