Jak, Penny, Flip, CL, I'm taking one day at a time!
Saw H on Thursday. D16 and I had planned to take MIL out for dinner. D16 called her dad to see if he would pick her up from school and she told him our plans. He told her to tell me to call him. I realized later I just should have waited and let him call me. Anyway, he invited himself to dinner. We met at a place where he could drive up with the boat. Said he wanted his mom to see the boat. It was a bit strained, but I don't think his mom even noticed. She knows he is spending a lot of time on the boat....she thinks it's because it's his new toy.
Normally I would have called him or texted him saying thanks for coming. I did not. No messages from him either.
I believe yesterday was the first day I can actually say we had absolutely no contact. At this point I don't see clearly how this will cultivate a friendship....it just makes me sad and angry!!!! We have this new boat that was supposed to bring us together, beautiful weather, a weekend, and no communication.
On the Divorce Care tape it mentions you need one year for every four years of marriage to recover. YIKES! And I barely made it through one day! Hopefully it will get easier!
