I tend to ignore mine, because if I focussed on them it would bring me down and I don't want to be down. But if I do notice them I do what you've ben doing - looking at how far i've come and celebrating that.
SD you sould good again - keep in touch, piecing can be a long long road.
And CM - get rid of the DVD already!!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.