lots to say without much time. Just know that both h and I served in the first Gulf War and neither had affairs that I know of. I know I was tempted partly b/c it's intense and partly b/c h was so busy and tired in his internship...
But I didn't do it, I saw a chaplain, a shrink and got through the deal. Without adultery. It IS doable.
FWIW, My older brother got married over a year ago and then shipped out. He is in Iraq another month. I KNOW he has not cheated, as much as I can know anything. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016