Cadesmom,

lots to say without much time. Just know that both h and I served in the first Gulf War and neither had affairs that I know of. I know I was tempted partly b/c it's intense and partly b/c h was so busy and tired in his internship...

But I didn't do it, I saw a chaplain, a shrink and got through the deal. Without adultery. It IS doable.

FWIW, My older brother got married over a year ago and then shipped out. He is in Iraq another month. I KNOW he has not cheated, as much as I can know anything.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change