What I'm doing now is really just having no contact with her. It just doesn't seem that she's moving away from her decision.
She really may be seeing someone or have someone in mind to see. She is still wearing her wedding ring and says that she'll remain faithful until the divorce is final. I know she has respect for me and really doesn't want to hurt me. She really is a good person. I think she's just finished with being married to me. She also knows that I'm a smart guy and generally find out info that others might not. I've proved this too her in the past with her and other people. However, she may be better at hiding thing too. She also has learned to be truthful to me, because I often know the answer before I ask the question. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a bad snoop or someone that holds things over someone's head. I just have a nack for getting info.
I really don't know what to do at this time. I probably need to lay low for another few days if not a week. Then I may need to take action. She seems to have "decided" that divorce is what she wants. I'm just not clear as to why she's not pushing for it to move forward. She's also not pushing to sell the house or get it ready to sell. There's a lot of mixed signals, but really I think she's made her decision.
I really would like to know more about what you're thinking. May be you can map it out generally, and I can walk thru it with you as I go.
NOPkins, I tried to send you a private message, but it says you are over your limit.
