I'd agree with you, and I've had the same thought, if it wasn't for his insistence on "desire". That's ...how do I explain it? An emphatic wish, isn't t? Would someone with an autism spectrum disorder really worry about that?
I'm not convinced that CeMar really knows what desire is. He has not experienced it from his wife in years and I am not clear whether he knows what his own desires are. I think he is reading a lot of stuff that talks about desire, so on an intellectual level, he is focusing on this fantasy without really knowing what it is or what it means. He just can't seem to connect the dots in his mind, even if you put those dots so close together they almost form a line. That inability is not normal. I think there is a lot more going on with CeMar than we know.
CeMar,
Talk up! Are you out there? Answer some questions.
