Update:

I still don't know if he's read the email or not. He called this evening which would be Friday night here, Saturday morning there and I asked him if he had seen another pic I had sent via email and he said he hadn't checked his email at all yesterday so now I'm trying to figure out the time difference and whether that was "yesterday" to him that I sent it or what.

Anyway, very good conv. He said even though he went out & played darts w/ the guys last night he got very homesick. Wanted to just have movie night w/ us and then go "rastle" in the bedroom w/ a certain redhead (that would be me \:\) )

I honestly don't think I'm real concerned about him cheating anymore. I truly think he and I are on the right path now and I just pray that he will remember how good we are and have been since putting our M back together.

I guess I'm still kind of nervous that, if he hasn't read the email, it may make him mad or irritated. I know you guys don't think he should be (I guess I don't really think he should be either). I'm just afraid he'll think I'm "starting something" by bringing up OW/EA and our whole sitch.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10