Chiki, I see what you mean now, I totally misinterpreted that, just worrying about your babies! Why can't they put family first just once?
It would take so much for me to walk out on my family, not just the lame saying "We've grown apart, I don't love you anymore."
We have to take care of ourselves as well as our kids. I went out with a friend last night and had a great time. We had a great dinner, that I charged to our company credit card by the way, and did a little shopping. It gives me a lot of satisfaction that the OW/his secretary is the one who has to take care of bills at the office! LOL
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon