Thanks so much for your advice. I know it's 2007, but I'm an old-fasioned girl!! JK! I guess I'm afraid to ask him because I'm afraid he'll say no. And I don't want to put any pressure on him. He is in IC right now and I asked if we should go together and his response was, "No, it's just me." What does that mean?
I'll keep detaching, even though I make mistakes. I came home from work today for lunch, something I don't normally do, and here he is mowing the lawn. Didn't tell me he was coming and I wouldn't have known until this evening because I would have been able to tell the grass was cut. Now I'm thinking that he did this while I was at work so he didn't have to see me--am I wrong? If he wanted to see me, he would have came later. And then I did something really stupid. Before I left to go back to work, I went out to him and said goodbye--he stopped mowing, but didn't turn it off--and then I gave him a kiss goodbye. Now I only did this because he gave me one last week, but thinking about it now--I could kick myself because I don't think he wanted one and wasn't making any attempt to give me one if I didn't.
I'm going to drive myself insane!! I need to GAL! Thanks again for your words of encouragement.