i live in a 50/50 state and both our names are on the house but H came on a removing binge while i was away. I called the lawyer he sent a nastygram to his L and said go ahead change the locks. not really supposed to, BUT he has given me reason to


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest