My wife and I have had several discussions about the issue and she has said the same thing repeatedly. In fact, I explained to her that I what you said and she laughed.
I ruly trust my wife yet harbor these insecure feelings, I suspect from my past. Although, in my world I suspect any red blodded male would have been upset with the picks that I saw. But maybe I am wrong.
My W understands why I was upset and clearly does not want me to feel that way.
I REALLY appreciate your comments because they help me validate what my wife was telling me. Sometimes it helps to hear it from a third party.
As a side note, my W and I realized that since it has been such a busy stressful year that we needed a adult vacation. You see, we have 6 kids and she just finished school to become a nurse this past year. I have a very high stress occupation as well so we decided it was time to take a nice vacation.
Thanks again for your support. Youy not only helped me get through this issue, but you ehlped me understand my wifes mindset. You were right on the money.