thanks for responding!! He moved back but is living in lower level of our house, however we eat together, we go out for dinner as a family, the only thing that is different is that we are not sleeping together. I have seen some signs that he is a MLC including depression the anger, he has had a lot of guilt for what he has done and has told me he is not worthy of me. We have been getting along better now then we have in almost 4 years. We have had a lot of pressure on us lately including a young son and we also built a large home, I mean he built us a large home, that we really can't afford. He also hates his job. I just don't understand why he would tell me I'm awesome and that we need each other but still wants to be separated?? Why the day after I tell him I love him, does he invite me out for dinner for Mother's day?