the whole MIL thing...ironically, it is H's father (remarried to 4th w..."fourth time's the charm"...) who wrote and called. Go figure.
My mil isn't coming to d18's graduation b/c she has dogs that are getting old and you "never know how long they'll be around"--referring to the dogs, btw. BUT then I find myself saying, "WTH do I want HER to be here for? " So, now that we know what we know -- we have to be careful what we wish for... Haven't talked directly to h about this. Don't know how necessary it is since mil is already so distant and now, her 2nd of 3 grandchildren is off to college... increasingly, I'm grateful she's not in the picture. If somehow, mil "visits" us (ahhh, another advantage of Alaska is that mil visiting is about a 1/1000000 likelihood) well then I will likely be very busy....getting a 2nd job, or something... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
