Any words of wisdom could help. Husband had a affair, left 1 yr ago, moved 4 hrs away to pursue new poker career. 6 months ago started wanted to see me when i moved 1 hour away. See's me 1 to 2 a week. Went to 6 sessions of therapy that were not helpful at all. He still says he dosent know what he wants. Does not want to come home but, likes spending time w/me, loves me and misses me when not around.
I am just torn up over this. I dont understand it. I forgave him, have loved him and wanted nothing from him and etc. I feel I only have to options left. Divorce or live with what he is giving me. Not much....But, really I just want him to come home and for us to try.
I need some help or someone to share there similar experience. I told my H that we should start talking about Divorce. Am I doing the right thing?
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010
