REMEMBER awhile ago when I mentioned my crazy ex friend? well she is dating one of my H's friends and to make a long story short she calls me H and for some reason it fills me with rage honestly and I am one of the most laid back people you are going to meet. lAST TIME I CONFRONTED HER SHE HUNG UP THE PHONE ON ME . IMMEDIATELY CALLLED MY H TOLD HIM I WAS UPSET AND THAT I HUNG UP ON HER!!!!!!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
so just before he mentioned her and I was getting angry and going to just let it ride and then I said ..
" YOU KNOW I AM SO HAPPY YOU WANT TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND TELL ME SHE CALLED BUT I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR ABOUT HER ANYMORE,, IT REALLY UPSETS ME AND MAKES ME ANGRY. HE SAID OK.
AND I WAS ABOUT TO GO ON AND HE SAID " I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT ANYMORE." IN A FIRM VOICE. AND I SAID FINE I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW I FEEL AND SHE HAS NO REASON TO BE CALLING YOU! NONE AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he just listened and in the past he would have told me to stop being jealous. And she will be calling my H daily now b/c she has her boyfriends CELL phone and her boyfriend is working for my H. So I felt I needed to stop him telling me about it cause I can not control that she calls but I can control that I do not want to hear about it???
TOO LATE BUT DID I OVEREACT?
I AM JUST SO TIRED OF BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF....
